这个分享让我深深地感受到花精的力量。在这段管制令期间,说沒有摩擦与冲突是假的! 但是可以察觉自己的”脾气”与习气,看到它又来了, 转个念,消化它、放下。我真的做到了也。Chestnut bud 花精, 可以让我们从错误中学习。(也非常适合学习障碍的孩子门.)
所以妈妈们,有时放下身段,做错了真的是要道歉,孩子都是在看着我们的呀!(身教最重要)。
不同年龄阶段,有不同的沟通方式,沟通的目的就是把讯息传递出去,心里想但沒有说出口,对方可不是肚子里的蛔虫.
看来给我儿子服用的Impatiens 与 Cherry Plum 花精也非常有效👍🏻 他尽然可以有耐心的等待着理发师为我处理好我头发!而且没有“抓狂”因为电话📲网络不好👏🏻
我真的非常鼓励我的个案、学员们,好好的记錄这些生活上的点点滴滴,除了对自己身心灵路上蜕变的见证,更可以让在经历着同样挑战的朋友们的一个鼓励。
祝福大家.
Let me captured this very precious, mother & son moment
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This is our first outing since March and he just wanted his quick hair cut
and so I said YES.... but I didn’t inform him that I will like to have mine done too. ....

OH NO!!! so this is always the mistake that I assumed it’s since I am the mother and I am driving ....BUT, this round I am very alert of this old behavior and I told him while we already on the way ... “Kai, so later I will have my hair cut and color ok”.
The answer is “whatever....” I knew he is not happy but I asked if he is REALLY OK to wait for me and his answer warm my heart “I said it’s ok, go ahead as I am happy you are telling me now
and not only when you are in the salon
only then informed me !”


Wow, this is totally amazing right! “communication” and “respect each other space & time. “
Happy day, Happy Hair Cut & Happy Mood for sure 
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