如果关系已经到了无法在继续下去的话，请以坦然，平静的心去衡量以下。你做得到吗?
1. Love yourself
You do this for yourself and you will not play the role of victim
You take full responsibility of the decision (your choice)
Only when you knew to love yourself, you can love those around you
2. True Forgiveness
There is nothing you can change the other party, stop finger pointing how bad the other party
All you have do is to True forgive forgiveness
3. Children
You will have quality time to accompany them
You will listen with no judgement
You give room for them to grow (practice Let Go)
You always use words to praise & uplift them to them & respect their choice
You will love them unconditionally (no expectation)
You will practice tough love (set the boundary)
5. Be yourself
You express your feeling & emotion
You learn to say No politely
如果你正是單身，但想找一位伴侣，才觉得你是完整的。（请三思!）
我建议你先阅读这几本书，希望能让你更了解关系。
祝快乐
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