Interesting topic on “kids addiction to phone”. How to help them and how can Bach flower remedies support in this matter? 孩子沉迷手机，花精可以帮助吗？
First thing first, have we ever try to look behind the cause why kids are so into the phone / gaming world? We all agreed that there must be a reason behind every incident?
我们时常会说事出必有因， 你认同吗？
Younger kids need lot of attention, older kids might not need too much of your time but they do still need your love & caring...Else you will hear them complaining “so boring...”.
Unfortunately, Unconsciously, the phone has become the baby sitter for them
(everybody knew how powerful the devise !)
比较小的孩子，我们几乎都没有私人空间了。他们都要很多时间去看顧与陪伴！比较大的孩子呢，可能我们不必用100%的时间了，但是他们还是须要被关注与陪伴哦！
（你会常听到他们说我很闷很无聊。）但是手机已经几乎变成了他们的奶妈！
只要手机一出塲，多么吵闹的环境，一下子就会变得鸦雀无声、天下太平了。
How about teenagers? A lot of us considered this as the problematic group! We are once in the group chat too! Facing peer pressure, siblings comparison, stress with the outlook, challenges in academic,relationships issues or simply communication issues (they don’t know how to express themselves, cannot find the right time to talk with their parents - as their parents also very busy on their phones !
许多父母对青少年感到无助、他们的叛逆让父母吃不消！也许父母也正进入人生的另一階段（更年期），每次都是火星撞地球不欢而散的下场！我们也曾经经历过这个时段，其实我们只要播出时间、用心的陪伴、良好的沟通、计定好界限，没有解决不了的问题。
There are many ways / solutions to help our kids, you will have to trial and error as I don’t believe one will fit for all. We are very individual and special. Here’s two methods I like to share:
1. Play until you “vomit “Therapy
玩到吐为止的厌恶疗法. 这个呀不是很多家长舍得強迫孩子一直玩下去……
2. Can’t beat them, join them Therapy
让我们一起跟他玩吧的顺势疗法。我个人觉得这个蛮有效的可以塔起沟通的桥梁，慢慢地进入孩子的世界呢。
38种花精，以下这些可以帮助我们提升勇气、力量、稳定、宽容去面对现实生活中的各种压力、挑战、不如意等等
樱桃李- 控制不了自己
胡桃- 容易受外界影响
铁线莲- 无法活在当下
白栗子- 腦袋不断重复的事物
龙芽草- 将痛苦瘾藏在笑脸之下
栗子芽苞- 明知故犯，没有从错误中学习
This is not an easy journey, we will need lot of patience & love. Praise them, fill them with all the positive vibes, telling them you are proud of them, they are special in their own way & most important, assure them you love them for who they are (not the results)!
这个真的是一件不容易的事呀，两方面都要付出很多的时间、关怀与爱，但是这个是绝对值得我们去付出的。请不要吝啬你的称赞、时常灌输他一些正能量的分享，让他知道你为他的改变感到自豪，更让他知道你真的爱他，而不是爱他的成绩。
祝福大家
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